It won’t be long now before the family unit is ripped apart. All of the effort it takes to keep it together will disappear and then each member will say “if only we’d done such and such”. The cracks have started to appear for a long time now and we’ve been papering over them in a futile effort tthat they wil all all go away. But they won’t go. The damage was done a long time ago and can’t be sorted out. No matter how hard you try.
Unfortunately, as most people will.discover, they don’t get a second chance. That ship sailed a long time ago.
